some whining

is it me or is it just that people, who tell you "you mean the world to me" but hurry to leave at the sight of a really difficult situation are stupidly immature?

i hate that this entry should be so angsty and bitter but what the hell! it’s just that it’s suffocatingly irritating when you find people who without batting an eyelash tell you things capable of constricting vital organs in the body and promising you stars, moon, blackholes  and what have you causing  your temperature to rise drastically. it’s a beautiful feeling of course but not when you notice that these oh-so-sweets seem to fail to deliver upon their promises, that all they are capable of doing is making you blush. duh, you can’t forever be stuck in that high schoolish stage. there are levels waiting to be explored and there is such a thing called growth.

i think that if one is incapable of making true his/her word, he/she should just better not say anything. making another person feel good does not necessitate colossal lies. okay fine, occassional flatteries is acceptable ( some argue its necessary ) but lies and flatteries are two uber different things.

some people are okay with being told things without tinge of sincerity but there are some who are totally on the other side, those kind who trust  essentially because they are the kind who would not indiscriminately say things for the heck of it but weigh the consequences of their words and actions as such translate to respect for the other person and the relationship itself. Unlike some people, the latter are the kinds who do not get into  relationships because they’re not used to being single so they take anybody who comes along…there are those who get into the relationship because they have the right reasons for doing so.

what’s my problem? well, people who can do no more than lip service, back off!

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