what i think…

September 10th, 2006

the trouble with friendship i think is that sometimes people involved in the relationship tend to let their guards down, become less sensitive and very comfortable. this happens specially when i think people think there is nothing that can come between them because the other has seen the worst in the other. that i think is wishful thinking. between friends, i do not think each has seen the worst in the other. it is possible that one has seen the best in the other but not the worst.

it can get pretty sticky when, having let your guard down and of course do things the way you’ve been accustomed to doing and while doing so you forget there are people, friends around you who might really be expecting for you to be a bit more considerate, you’ll start being noticed for this and that small (i recognize size could be relative) thing you don’t do right. the real struggle is when you try hard for things not to get to you because afterall that’s what friendship is all about ( or so i think ).

while you struggle to keep things together because there’s not much reason not to, you wonder how long you’re gonna last….




2 Responses to “what i think…”

  1.   emille on September 15, 2006 9:04 pm

    are you sure this is just a friendship?=))

  2.   ruth on September 17, 2006 5:42 am

    oh yeah…surer than my identity

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